That's what in my mind right now. Yesterday, i met up with 3 of my bffs frm high school. It was just a short meet up during their lunch break. One of the conversation was about a friend who got divorced. I was shocked! Really shock!
This was the thing that you didn't see it coming when you were in high school. Imagine eh, kat sekolah dulu we see people differently. Ada yang social sgt la, yg malas la, law breaker la itu la ini la.. then ada jugak yg scorer,
So when you hear about this, surely ada rasa shock, disbelief and mmg tak sangka-sangka especially bila
I'm not saying this because i have a perfect life/family etc but it just really sad to know this thing happened to them. Seriously, masa sekolah dulu, i imagined that they would have a very successful life, career & family. Memang tidak menjangka yang one day day they actually be called a divorcee.
Even when one of them, who happen to be related to me, announced that she's getting married about 10 years ago, i kinda felt like "what she's getting married already???" padahal masa tu i belum lagi habis my degree, which she already did (shows that she's smart!). And tiba2 my all other (older) cousins semua pakat2 kahwin sbb nak catch up with her so tinggal la i terkontang kanting yang belum kahwin & belum kerja.
Well i deserved it pun sbb byk sgt main2 masa belajar kan.. what to do.
Nway, back to the topic, it's such a sad thing to see it ended. Tapi kenalah percaya yg semua ni adalah ketentuan Allah. As His humble slave, we just have to redha.
Am sure it's not as easy as saying it for those who actually going through it. But i do hope and believe that Allah will grant them a lot of other good things if they just believe in Him and tawakal.
mode: tgh ada mood nak blog :-D
1 comment:
banyak criter un'sangka'rable skarang ni kan?? but then, I guess that's life. no guarantees. no surety except for Allah. harap - harap tak jadi kat kita or our loved ones kan?? as you say, it's hard to imagine what that person's going through. must be tough!!
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