Hot Day

It's been very hot these past few days and i think i'm down with sniffles. Sigh! They gave me lots of vit c supplies so i thot it culd prevent me from being sick. Didn't work when you're pregger with 3rd child when all your immunisation all gone to your 2 babies and now the 3rd, i guess.

Last Saturday, it was the hottest day ever, and MIL & FIL was not around. Busy helping out a neighbour with their kenduri. SIL#3, went out since Friday, only came back at abt 11am. So that day the kids are left pretty much with me. By noon, i just can't take the heat anymore so called hubs and told him that i'm coming to KL. He was quite suprised and asked me all kind of questions that he culd ask before approving. I packed all the kids' stuffs. Got them and myself ready. Load them into the car stuffed with milk. Got the engine started... but where the hell am i going in KL?

So i smsed a friend and a cousin. Didn't get reply from the friend but my cousin replied saying she's meeting a friend at M1d Vall*y. MV was not really on my list coz i know how congested that place is. Since i don't hv other choice (oh! called my sis too but she was on her way to a kenduri) so i asked cousin whether i can meet her there to which she replied 'ok'. I drove off heading to MV. After 1 hour, when i finally arrived and parked, i smsed the cousin again asking where shall i meet her? She said, her friend changed plan because it was raining and that they are going to KLCC instead. I was like 'WHAT!' Well it's not that i can't go out on my own with the kids. I was thinking abt how am i going to pray. Mia is ok but with Marsya??

You see, this cousin of mine, i've noticed, has been avoiding to go out with me. The reason? Well she used to have (or still has) a boyfriend which i don't really like. Why? 1st of all he's 4 years younger than her, same age with her sister. They started dating when the bf was in form 5. Ok if you think age is not a matter, let me tell you this. He's not only young but very, VERY immature, possessive, controlling, aggressive and rude. There was this one time, ala it's a normal thing when we (budak2 jahat ni) wanted to go out dating dulu2 when one didn't get the parent's approval so what we normally did was, sleep over the cousin's. So this cousin slept over my house (when i was still a bachelor), merely to go out with this bf. So this bf got my phone number and we met on few occasions.

To cut things short, there this one time when he culd not reached my cousin so he ended up calling me early in the morning asking where's my cousin in a very rude manner. He even threatened me. I later found out thru another relative who despised the bf, he met my cousin at her friend's house and beated her. I even saw the bruised on her chin but she told me she fell down. Now i know why her parent didn't approve of the relationship. I even found out later that the bf once called my uncle to tell bad things abt my cousin, to which i'm still confused of his motive.

The cousin and i even had a fight abt him. So now to keep the relative relationship, i just keep quiet and never asked abt him to her ever again. My hubs knew abt him and even met him once. Last Raya he asked this cousin abt him. In front of me pulak tu. She just said tunggu je la. She didn't deny nor admit that she's still coupling with him. Her youngest sis also has a bf but the parent seems to approve with that because the bf is a decent guy. I've met him first time during their brother's wedding. Not only the bf was there but his mom and sister was there too. Apparently, his parents and my uncle and aunty have became acquainted. The bf's family (parent and all siblings), came over my uncle's house during raya. My question now is, why can't the cousin find a bf something likeabke like her sis' bf.

Unless it was true what she was telling me last Saturday abt her 'friend' changed plan, i assume she's still befriend with that immature brat. I'm pretty sure the bf has restrained her from going out with me. Hey, it's your life. If you think he's the perfect guy you always wanted then you don't need my approval. It's your own life and i don't even care altho you are my cousin. I have my own beautiful life to take care of. Which in fact are much more important to me.